MQTT support overhaul, mainly for SBBSCTRL compatibility

The only difference in the data/scheme is that the "error" topic (error log) is now under each server rather than each host. I don't *think* there are any other changes from the MQTT consumer side.

Still not done: subscribing (e.g. support for recycle or node-spy-input via MQTT) and NT services support.

This change also includes a cool feature that will prompt the sysop if there's a timeout (30 seconds) while waiting for servers to shutdown gracefully and giving the sysop the option to abort (Cancel) the wait (and shutdown ungracefully) or continue the wait (OK).